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The taste of Christmas with essential oils

'It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas'. The time of the year where my hospitality heart starts to beat a little bit faster. A wonderful time to prepare wonderful food and share it with you loved ones. We are looking for warmed since it is getting colder outside. You might already bumped into a glass of mulled wine on a Christmas Market and experienced the taste of Christmas. Just by thinking of it hear the Christmas Carols in my head. I have to take you back to my childhood to explain you why.

 
The smell of Christmas

When I was a teenager we lived above the furniture shop of my parents. Somewhere at the end of October slowly the first lights and Christmas decorations popped up. En from the the end of November until the 6th of January the whole shop was in Christmas style. Thousands of Lights on the inside and outside of the building, Christmas Carols through the speaker, that was hanging out of my bedroom window, so I was hearing Christmas Carols for almost 2 months. In the weekends even real Charles Dickens personages, a horse sleigh for the kids and a life jazz band for even more ambiance. The most beautiful decorations and of course the smell of chocolate, clove, cinnamon and orange, because the whole month of December my father was making mulled wine and hot chocolate for all the customers. 

Although we were really happy when it was time to get back to normal in January I do have a lot of wonderful memories of those intense Christmas months. Memories that come back just by smelling the warming spices combined in the doTerra OnGuard oil. This is exactly what makes essential oils and smells so powerful, they work on and activate our emotional system.

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The taste of Christmas

In this post I want to share the recipe of mulled wine and mulled cider making use of the doTERRA OnGuard oil.  In this way you can easily invite the taste of Christmas in your home.

Besides the great energizing and uplifting aromaThe OnGuard oil has a lot health benefits. It is a perfect oil to use when you are having a cold since it supports a healthy immune and respiratory function. When diffusing it in your house when you are ill can help to keep the air clean, because the oil protects against environmental threat. Read here more about doTERRA OnGuard 

 

 

Mulled Wine 

Cook time: 10 mins
Serves:5
Ingredients:

  • 0,75 liter of red wine
  • 4-5 drops doTerra OnGuard Essential oil
  • 3 tbs of honey

Instructions:

  1. Pour wine into a pan and place on medium heat until warm, but drinkable temperature.
  2. Add the honey & the drops of the OnGuard oil.

Heating up oils takes away some of the therapeutic benefits, so add the oil after you've warmed the wine.

Mulled Cider 

Cook time: 10 mins
Serves:5
Ingredients:

  • 1 liter apple cider or apple juice
  • 4-5 drops doTERRA OnGuard Essential oil
  • Lots of Love

Instructions:

  1. Pour apple cider into a pan and place on medium heat until warm, but drinkable temperature.
  2. Add the drops of the OnGuard oil.

Heating up oils takes away some of the therapeutic benefits, so add the oil after you've warmed the apple juice.

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10 days of silence (3): Can you sit with pain?

In July I attended a 10 day Vipassana Silence meditation. It turned out to be a stunning experience. Back home I  got a lot of questions from people about my experience and therefore I decided to dedicate a couple of blogposts  to it. In those posts I will describe my 10 days in silence. It will be a personal blog where I also will relate to different theoretical aspects and make a link to daily life.

Can you sit with pain your or mine

We all have to face pain and unpleasant situations in our life. How we react to it differs, but in general we tend to fight, flight or freeze as an instictual reaction. Accepting a situation as it is, is another possibility, but this is can be challenging. During the mediation I had to face a lot mental en physical pain, an interesting journey that I will describe in this blogpost.

The course continues

With the moral conduct as foundation (5 precepts), the second aspect of the practice was concentration of the mind. The first three days we had to observe our breath. Later on we had to focus on a small part under our nose. This was just a preparation to become aware of the bodily sensations. The fourth day we were introduced into the Vipassana technique itself which is an observation of the complete body in a structured order, an observation of the mind. Here the third aspect of the practice came in, the wisdom of insight gained by observation of the mind. Only with this wisdom the mind can be purified.

Noble truths of wisdom

During the discourses Mr. S.N. Goenka explained the noble truths that form the foundation of this wisdom. First of all it is about acknowledging that there is suffering in our life and in the world: We do feel pain, we have emotions and sad things happen.

Secondly the cause of this suffering  finds its origin in either aversion or craving. When we are in a situation we label it either as being good or bad. When we label it as being bad, it immediately plants a seed of negativity. When we experience a pleasant situation we enjoy it so much that we want it to happen again. This is where the craving comes in. We create circumstances that will allow the same pleasure to occur. This might happen a couple of times but eventually the pleasant feeling will not be the same as the first time. We will be disappointed and it will become a bad experience which will plant a seed of negativity.

The end of suffering  is when we stop craving by accepting the principle of impermanence. Every experience good or bad will have the same quality of impermanence, pulsation. This is the same quality as waves in the ocean have, they just come and go. Everything is temporary, the good and the bad. By recognizing that everything is temporary the present moment becomes more valuable. The practice of equanimity helps to free us from the suffering we have. We won’t plant any new seeds of negativity and the old seeds of negativity will automatically come to the surface in order to dissolve. We can only purify the mind when our thoughts and actions are clean and when we are aware of all the sensation to gain this insight of wisdom.

The practice of equanimity

Three times a day there we had to sit still for a full hour. The other hours where less strict. It was all about practicing equanimity.

Not moving was hard. I had difficulties to focus and there was so much pain in my body. My mind came up with 100 different reasons to stand up and go outside. It took me a couple of days to sit the whole hour. It made me aware of how easily I get distracted when I set a goal.

I realized that I sometimes avoid negativity by pushing away my emotions, and also physical pains I can neglect. The last years I haven’t watched the news to avoid all war and misery in the world. I tend to over-analyze all that is happening and  try to find an explanation for all I feel and do and then try to fix it. The same I tend to do for others.

It made me aware that I am constantly living in my own created bubble, trying either to hide or to fix. By accepting the pain I also accept what is.

Sit with pain

fight or flightFor me the pain manifested itself as a sharp pain in my back and my hips. While in the beginning I was moving around and contracted my muscle just to get rid of the pain, after a while I managed to relax my body more and more in order to feel. During this process a phrase of one of my favorite poems kept on repeating in my mind: ‘I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it’ –  the invitation of Oriah Mountain Dreamer. These words were so powerful to me at that moment that they helped me to stay with my pain.

This made me realize that the pain was not that bad. Just by observing this, at the first sight stinging pain on my whole back, turned out to find its origin on only a really small area, like the tip of the pain. First the pain became more intense, but just by embracing it it started to fade away, to evaporate.

The last years I did overcome a lot of physical and emotional pain, but there was a point I couldn’t break through. The mediation allowed me to go deeper, just by being softer and stop fighting. The practise of equanimity. Where I tend to fight or flight being overwelmed by pain, the mediation learned me how to face the deeper layers of pain deep inside.

And what about you? Can you sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it?

Next blogpost: Planting a seed

This blog is based on my personal experiences and is not a description of the course outline. It is not my intention to teach this practice in any way. The experiences of attending a Vipassana course and the effect from  it will differ per person. For more information about the t course you can check the dhamma website. 

 

 

 

10 Days of Silence (2): and so it started

In July I attended a 10 day Vipassana Silence meditation. It turned out to be a stunning experience. Back home I  got a lot of questions from people about my experience and therefore I decided to dedicate a couple of blogposts  to it. In those posts I describe my 10 days in silence. It is a personal blog where I also will relate to different theoretical aspects and make a link to daily life.

Live like a monkde Glind

So there it started my 10 days of silence, experiencing  the life of a renunciate. The course was held in a convention centre in the Glind in the Netherlands. There were  separate male and female areas. The meditation hall was the only place where men and women where together, both on their own side of the hall.

During the 10 days we had to live like monks without any valuables. Which can be described as  a sober and simple lifestyle, living on the charity of others. The whole course is paid with the donations of old students. I slept on mattresses on the floor in a dormitory  with 7 other women.Continue Reading . . .

10 days of Silence (1) : Vipassana

Vipassana Meditation 10 days of silecne

My path of mediation

In 2010 I took my first meditation course because   I had a lot of stress and problems focusing. It was an introduction into different styles of meditation. The teacher recommended us that if you want to get the meditation into your daily routine you have to do it at least for 40 days in a row. So I started a 40 day challenge . After a week I already noticed tiny little changes in the chaos in my head, which made me decide to explore the world of mediation.

Ever since it has been a bumpy road with really intense practices and but also  months of hardly any mediation. But every time I came back to it. When I lived in the Netherlands I joined a Zen Budhist  group for a weekly meditation practice which gave me a stronger routine. In my teacher trainings several meditations techniques where presented as well.  I managed the last year to have a 80% steady daily practice of 20 to 30 minutes a day.

Vipassana

Four years ago I heard for the first time about the Vipassana mediation, a 10 day  silence course. Sometimes  you hear about course, a holiday destination, a person, an object  and then all of a sudden it seems to be everywhere and everyone you meet knows about it. Maybe you experienced it yourself as well. I believe that when this happens it has something to tell you.

This is what happened to me with Vipassana. All of a sudden I heard about it everywhere and in couple of weeks’ time I met several people that joined the course and told me how much it changed their lives. I felt it was something special and I was determined to do it as well. In 2013 I  signed up but eventually I didn’t went  eventually because of our move to Norway. In hindsight  I was not ready for it by that time. During my stay in India this year I spoke with someone about the course again and this time I knew I was ready for it and signed up for a course in the Netherlands. 17th  July it all started. It turned out to be a mind-blowing experience.

During the course note books were not allowed, so no journaling, which added value for me in hindsight , in order to BE in the moment and in the meditation.

But after the course I felt the need write, so that is what I did the last week, simply writing without any predefined purpose . This really helped me to process all that happened in the meditation.

Now I am back I’ve got a lot of questions from people about my experience and I therefore I decided to dedicate a couple  of blogs to it. In those blogs I will describe my 10 days in silence. It will be a personal blog where I also will relate to different theoretical aspects and make a link to daily life, food, essential oils and music.

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This blog is based on my personal experiences and is not a description of the course outline. It is not my intention to teach this practice in any way. The experiences of attending a Vipassana course and the effect of it will differ per person. For more information about the t course you can check the dhamma website.